I've heard of people who suggest remembering the things that first attracted you to your partner (usually advice given when trouble is already on the horizon)... My suggestion here is that happy couples often draw upon those shared moments because they STILL hold that level of passion. Basically, if you find yourself smiling when you reflect on your life with your partner it means you are still going strong. People who are in unhappy situations don't look back and recall the butterflies.
Remember the spice... does it still stir something inside you today? There is no reason to lose that first feeling of desire and lust. If you still want to impress one another, if you still feel the passion and excitement that drew you together in the first place - you are golden!! If you still think about your partner and want to rip their clothes off - you've GOT IT!
So take a moment, reflect, remember... do you still get tingles? ....GOOD!!!
Now run along and keep the fires a'burnin'!!!
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