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Friday, May 22, 2009

Fucking vs. soul sharing....or maybe BOTH!!!

I believe there are two general ways to have sex... 1. is fucking and 2. is soul sharing/love making... Clearly the latter describes someone you are deeply connected to and the emotions are so intense that the physical act of sex is merely reactionary to your feelings. Fucking is a little more obvious - it's raw - it's kinky - it's a basic animalistic urge... It's about getting OFF!!! ;o)
So look upon your sexual experiences past. I'll bet there was likely more fucking than love making no? Perhaps you didn't know it in the moment but looking back I'll bet most of us can admit that. I figure it all depends on whether love or being horny is affecting your brain at that particular moment. I know some of us have been guilty of letting our cravings affect our decisions too lol! (Admit it, I'm not alone!!!!!!)

What is ideal however, is when you find a partner who will indulge in the full spectrum with you. One who will love you when you need to feel loved and fuck you when you need to get fucked ;o) If you are lucky enough to have a multi-skilled partner you will find you CAN have both facets in one session - which of course is complete utopia!!! You'll know it when you have it. The tenderness that comes from the soft kisses, slow caresses, loving eye contact and gentle grinds... That's the meaningfulness of soul sharing or love making. I like to start off that way (sometimes) but the tables tend to turn when the excitement in my body takes over... Then it's time for fucking ;o) Taking your partner on with no remorse, no mercy just hard core. Switching up positions, sweat dripping all over your bodies, no inhibitions just crazy stuff!!

I have enjoyed and experienced both. Some partners got to see one side of me more than another. The fine mix comes with the partners who you can do both with. Share love, fantasy, kink and passion with. I think you can truly only fully enjoy both when you are with someone who you completely feel safe with - you can't really give your ALL otherwise.

Run along, fuck, make love... go for gold and play both sides ;o) When sex is fun and loving it's the best of both worlds!!

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Chick

1 comment:

Fred said...

I agree the best sessions start out making love and end with f***ing!